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Is Financial Independence a Blessing or a Curse?

Is Financial Independence a Blessing or a Curse
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Cody

Creator at Fly to FI
Cody is a 22-year-old entrepreneur, life optimizer, and creator of Fly to FI. He is a personal finance junkie who constantly tracks his net worth with Personal Capital.

In his spare time, he enjoys exploring the globe for FREE using a technique called travel hacking!
Cody
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The alarm wakes me up at 5:40 AM. I get up, shower, scarf down breakfast, and leave the house by 6:30 AM to catch the 6:57 AM train. The train ride is 1 hour and 23 minutes long. During the ride, I spend my time writing blog posts, editing the podcast, and responding to emails. I arrive at South Station in Boston at 8:20 AM and walk 15 minutes to my office.

I sit down, clock in, and begin the nine-to-five grind. 95% of my workday is spent sitting in a cubicle staring into my computer screen. Ideally, I clock out at 5:20 PM to catch the 5:40 PM train back home. Again, I spend the entire train ride blogging, editing, or doing administrative things for my side hustles. The train pulls in at 7:03 PM (when there are no delays) and I get into my car at 7:10 PM.  Finally, I drive 10 minutes to the gym, spend 45 minutes to 1 hour there, and get home around 8:45 PM.

I wolf down dinner and then, depending on the night, I either record a podcast, write content, plan social media posts, answer emails, or [insert laundry list of other tasks]. I typically get to bed around 11:00 PM and then repeat that exact same routine every single day of the week.

A Reality Unknown

I’m not looking for pity. I know that I am beyond fortunate to live in America, have a roof over my head, know where my next meal is coming from, earn a great income, enjoy amazing family and friends, and so much more. However, despite all of this fortune, I still wake up each weekday with feelings of disdain, weariness, and entrapment.

If you’re like 67% of Americans, you probably feel the same way. Now, here’s where the dilemma ensues: Is financial independence a blessing or a curse?

At my office, and at offices around the country, I know that many employees have similar feelings about their nine-to-five jobs. However, these same employees have been stuck in the hamster wheel for so long that they forgot what it feels like to stop running.

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These complacent, unfulfilled employees have accepted this routine as their reality, and see no chances of escape. They show up, clock in, do their job, clock out, get home, de-stress, and continue the cycle for 40+ years in the hopes that, someday, they can enjoy the fruits of their labor.

The craziest part? Despite the monotony and lack of purpose experienced by many of these employees, they have convinced themselves that “it’s not so bad” and “everybody has to live like this”. These people have not seen the light. They have not been exposed to the tenets of financial independence and life flexibility. Should I pity their ignorance, or envy it?

Is Ignorance Really Bliss?

I have woken up from the Matrix. Mr. Money Morpheus and his band of FIRE-advocates have unplugged me from the system and allowed me to take a step back and see the world through a different lens. I don’t want that life. I don’t want to run on the hamster wheel until my legs collapse, only to then “enjoy the fruits of my labor” at the young age of 65.

Are my complaints unwarranted? Maybe. Should I just suck it up and live like I’m “supposed to”? Maybe. Is my judgment clouded by my American-given sense of entitlement? Maybe.

Don’t get me wrong, as I mentioned before, I am incredibly grateful for the things I have, people I know, the society I grew up in, opportunities I have been granted, etc. Nonetheless, this whole financial independence thing has transformed my mindset and my outlook on the world.

Sometimes, I’m a bit jealous of those who haven’t discovered financial independence. There are also some people who have heard and just refuse to believe it. It seems that if you say “this isn’t so bad” enough, your brain actually starts to believe it.

These people, trapped in the Matrix, are at least somewhat content with their lives. They don’t mind showing up to work, mindlessly writing or punching numbers for 8 hours, and repeating this routine for 5 days per week, 50 weeks per year, and 40+ years of their life because “everybody else is doing it”.

Was I lucky to stumble into this financial independence movement, or is ignorance really bliss?

Knowledge is Power

Since discovering this financial independence movement, I feel that I now have a responsibility to society. I (and the rest of my fellow financial independence content creators) need to play the role of Neo and fight back against the system.

We need to ‘wake up’ as many people as possible and show them that a different type of life is actually possible. One that doesn’t involve sitting in a cubicle for 8+ hours per day, 50 weeks per year, and 40+ years of our lives. One that doesn’t keep us away from our passions, goals, family, friends, and relationships.

We need to illustrate that it is possible to create a life that you love. Once the lightbulb in your brain flicks on and you realize the true value of money and what it can buy — at that moment — you take back control of your life.

Financial independence is truly the greatest gift of all. Share the message with your family, friends, coworkers, classmates, and anybody else who will listen.

As I conclude this post I feel that I have answered my initial question. Knowing about financial independence is a blessing. Although it may be a burdensome blessing, and ignorance surely involves less of a moral responsibility, it is a blessing nonetheless.

As long as I’m still creating content, my goal is to convert as many hamsters back to their human form as possible. There is more to life than slogging away in a cubicle, longing for each weekend, and dreading Monday mornings.

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12 thoughts on “Is Financial Independence a Blessing or a Curse?

  1. Great article.

    I’m a little bit older than you.

    I’m currently on vacation with my partner and my partners parents (one retired, one close to)

    The thing that struck me was all the retired people, shuffling around in cheap ‘sensubke’ Clothes and looks of – I’m not sure what. Bewilderment? Fear? Is this what I worked all those years for ?

    But also the younger guys with dreadlocks living in vans. Also – what am I doing?

    What am I saying? FI yes. Passive income – absolutely. But as you say once you’re off the hamster wheel, have a life you love planned and waiting for you.

    1. Really appreciate you taking the time to read. You definitley make some insightful points.

      I think the key is to be intentional in every stage of your life. The people you are describing sound like they let life happen to them.

      The hamster wheel is definitely a dangerous contraption, but getting off with nowhere else to run can be equally as dangerous.

      Have a happy thanksgiving!

  2. Once you swallow that pill the whole game changes and you can’t go back.

    I too am glad I have awoken from the slumber and stumbled onto the world of FIRE. It is sometimes tough to not let in on the secret those who have not discovered this reality.

    Keep carrying on what you do and word will eventually spread

    1. Thanks for reading, X-ray! It really is a superpower and it’s a shame that only a small subset of the population knows it exists.

      Hopefully in a few years that will all change as FIRE gains more mainstream recognition.

  3. The knowledge of financial independence is definitely a blessing. When I was your age I didn’t know about “FI” but I did know I wanted to save my money, buy property and plan for financial goals. I would urge you to balance your desire for FI with enjoyment in your current life. Don’t look at your job as a giant hamster wheel. Look for ways to make it more enjoyable. Youth often brings great, out of the box ideas, creativity and vigor. Try to use your time to find ways to make work better and more interesting. It doesn’t have to feel like such a drudgery and if you are counting down the days to FI then rethink your plan. You shouldn’t feel miserable between now and then. You have the power to make it more tolerable and maybe even learn to like going to work. I’m twice your age but looking back I can now see how much fulfillment and satisfaction I felt at work. If you are wise enough to reach for FI I bet you’ll have no problem viewing work in a different light.

    1. Thank you for the insightful thoughts OFG. I think the problem stems from the job itself. You’ll definitely enjoy my post coming out this Sunday 🙂

      But I completely agree. However, if I want to feel value from my corporate job I think I need a more intropreneur type role. At my current job it’s very cookie-cutter procedures and not much room for creativity. It’s more like “get this done by this deadline” type of work.

      I truly appreciate the kind words. Don’t worry, I’ll be enjoying my journey very soon!

      1. I definitely agree with you both.

        I tell my younger staff two things they need to be doing:
        1. Treat their boss (me) as if I was a client, not their boss. Change their mindset about how to deliver a project, issue or even just an email. Responsibility. Resourcefulness. Autonomy. Efficiency. Treat it like paid learning for your next job. And
        2. Since I work in architecture- what does your portfolio look like?. I.e. what can you take to your next role from where you are here. How can you show what you personally brought to a project, process or situation rather than just doing what you were supposed to.

        Both the business and these young folk benefit from really showing up at work and improving beyond the ‘hamster wheel’ approach.

        I also urge them to get out of work on time. Regardless of what’s on your plate, nail it. Get out on time. Glad to see you have that one covered Cody.

        Oh, and happy thanksgiving to all my US Friends

        1. Thank you for your advice and for all of the kind words! I know that I will eventually find my calling but my current role at my current company just isn’t doing it for me.

          With this mindset I’ve adopted, I’ll find something eventually.

          Happy thanksgiving from us over in the U.S.!

  4. Hustle now, because goodness knows once you get a life, you’ll never have this sort of time again.

    I want to commend you for having a fire in your belly, but please tell me you’re going out and making memories. When I was job hunting in the midst of the recession, a friend from an entirely different line of work scored me an interview. I am very lucky that I knew her socially, because that position was never posted.

    Why did you choose your career? For the financial aspect of it? Or because you love it?

    Because 19/20 days, I love my job. I’m happy to be going in. I’m not thinking, I really gotta do this another 30 years?

    If that way of thinking spawned your blog, maybe you should consider a career change.

    (Unless your problem is that they’re sticking 22-year-old you with the grunt work. It’s like that!)

    https://www.melanie.city/

    1. Thanks for reading Melanie! Unfortunately I chose my current career for the money. It’s definitely not something I want to be doing for the next 30 years, but I’ll find my calling

      I’m still young so i have plenty of years to write new chapters of my life 🙂

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